CONFIDENCE

Confidence:       Full trust; belief in the powers, trustworthiness, or reliability of a person or thing:

You have the ability to succeed.

     When you are meeting new people some people are shy. They may be intimidated by the person for some strange reason. Some people do have hard time talking strangers because for one they don't know what to say or they don't want o say the wrong thing. Offend the person or make them self's look foolish. 

     When you are talking to someone for the first time the other fellow may look frightfully big or powerful but he is still a human being with essentially the same interest, desires and problems as you. "Your just two important people sitting down to discuss something of mutual interest and benefit."

Three simple steps to become more confident when talking to people

1. Be a front seater: When you go out in public places have you ever noticed that the back of the rooms fill up first? This is due to the fact that most people don't like to be noticed. Well guess what? Its the successful people who get noticed!! Make yourself stand out enjoy the fact that people see you. It builds confidence once you know that people know who you are.     
2. Make eye contact: How a person uses their eyes tells alot about an individual. The eyes never lie. Eye contact says two things. The person not making eye contact says that they feel week next to you, inferior. Or its the persons way of saying that they are guilty of something.                                                 "You say nothing good about yourself when you avoid eye contact. You say, "I'm afraid. I lack confidence." Conquer this fear by making yourself look the other person in the eyes."
3. Be faster: You can change your attitude by changing your posture and speed. Walk 25 percent faster and you will build confidence. Throw your shoulders back, lift up your head, mlve ahead jsut a little faster and feel the confidence grow. When go faster you are moving as if you are on a mission and you are not going to let anything stop you. People will look at you differently. As in lets not stop him or get in his way

Also you can become more confident with a smile :) 

A big smile give you confidence. A big smile beats fear rolls away worry and the idea of defeat.

IDEA: SMILE :)

"THE MAGIC OF THINKING BIG"

By David J. Schwartz

1981